Author: Alex Stepanov

Talking to different people I often came across the strange opinion: “A long-term relationship can’t start between a girl and a guy if the guy applied a great deal of pick-up methods (including NLP sub-modal changes and hypnosis) and especially if he had sex with her at their first few dates.” Since I have never experienced anything like this I have tried to find out what’s the difference between “one night” and “long-term” pick-up. One of the well-known pick-uppers gave me the answer. Actually it wasn’t something new. Strange as it may seem but this method was missing at the pick-uppers schooling. That’s why today I’m writing about increasing a partner’s significance.

The method of decreasing a girl’s significance is well-known to every pick-upper and it’s proved its effectiveness. On the one hand, the method of subduing your feelings toward a girl has a side effect – the girl becomes needless. You have sex with her and then you totally forget about her existence which is in the most cases a sound and right thing to do. On the other hand, my mind understands that this is the girl I’d gladly start a relationship with but the other part of me just drifts peacefully to the next girl. I worked out three methods how I can increase a girl’s significance for myself in order to aspire to her not only with my mind but with all my body and soul (what if it’s necessary?).

An ecological warning: increasing a girl’s significance may result in a most unpleasing thing – the girl may send you to hell. Be ready to such a turning-point and keep your relationship under control.

Method number one (the easiest and the weakest): think much about her. The more you think the sooner you fall in love with her. Imagine yourself in many different situations with her and watch this movie in your mind following its dialogues. In a certain period of time you will find out that you want to be with herJ.

Method number two (much more difficult in realization, requires some fantasy but works faster): set a date with her and prepare every single detail for it right up to buying her a tooth-brush and a slight perfuming with your favorite perfume the things from your wardrobe she will wear the next morning instead of a dressing gown. Such a preparation usually takes up all day (or even more) after which your attitude to this evening changes completely. A couple more evenings together arranged like that and you will fall head over feet with her. It’s important that you think over EVERY detail for her comfort and pleasure.

Method number three (for NLP-ers, the quickest one): sub-modal changes. You change the sub-modality of your own perception of the girl to the attitude you need to acquire. You should mind the ecology of your actions regarding the model of purpose setting.

Actually, the article can be concluded here. I would like to attract your attention to the point I consider the basic one: your relationship with a woman is the result of your own activity. The relationship will be as good as you make it. So make different creative approaches to solve this problem – make up your own methods of increasing your partner’s significance; use decreasing significance in a proper way then you may increase it again. Perhaps, you would have to repeat the cycle more than once... Keep on experimenting! Be happy with your beloved woman!

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