I talked to the girl who had been angry with me for leaving her lately with her friend and some unfamiliar people. I got sick of them. A couple of weeks ago I tried to seduce that girl at my place but she left home. Answering her question why I had left her last time I told her that she should be looking for the answer in herself, she shouldn’t ask me, she could try and recall everything herself. Then she said:

- We could have worked things out last time...

I said:

- So what was your problem then?

- If you had done one thing I wanted you to do...

- What? // Thinking: “Forgot that love crap, eh?”

- Some words and actions are not enough sometimes.

- Actions were not enough? // “I was surprised, you know.”

- Yes, actions were enough but you should have talked more about something.

- Talk about what? // “Compliments, that’s what you need?”

- Feelings...

- What feelings? // “Right, forgot that love stuff. But I thought she knew pretty well I wasn’t in love with her. What does she want?”

- About what you feel, what you want...

- What? You expected me to say what I wanted?..

- Yeah... whispering it in my ear with your tender voice...

There... nothing new about it. I’d just draw your attention to the following:

1. As they see it “feelings” is not always “love”. You can tell her a lot of stuff about your real physical and emotional state at the moment without lying and that would be exactly what she WANTS to hear. Sometimes you lack this trifle to get what you want.

2. That’s why a girl doesn’t only love with her ears but she also wants with her ears!

3. Anyone can lay the girl in bed. Having combined your caresses with a sweet fairy tale you will get a desirable happy-ending. They just love those who sweet talk about NOTHING.

4. Recently (having sex) my girlfriend asked me: “Tell me something sweet in my ear... Your voice is so comforting...” So what else do you need? Talk to them proving it with your hands and your lips!!! Imagine: you got her under the blanket, you got her legs spread and when you start doing silently what you have to different thoughts start coming to her pretty head. “Do I do it right?”, “Will he leave me after that?”, “Will I come before or after him?”, “He’s gonna press me down!”, “When am I having my periods?” As a result she’s stiff and not satisfied at all. So replace her thoughts with your words, the words that YOU need.

I have been walking down the street lately thinking how I could explain to people the talking about NOTHING method. It flushed my mind to describe ALOUD what I think about the things that surround me. I was walking and talking to myself with an appropriate intonation without giving myself a break. When I was telling something exciting I was smiling and making jokes. First you feel confused to do it even for yourself and then you train a little and everything’s Ok. After having corrected some things you will get what a girl wants from you. Try it!

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