What if she doesn’t reply to your letters or phone calls? (“Politics of intolerance”)

If she doesn’t seem to pick up the receiver or answer your letters your relationship starts looking rather gloomy. It’s not the end. It will all depend on your further tactics.

Stop swamping her with your letters tormenting yourself with the question “Why doesn’t she reply?? Let me try it again from the very beginning.” It won’t do. This is an unfailing method to lose her.

Your reaction should be radically different – don’t react at all. You had sent a message to her; she received it and now it’s her turn to do something. She keeps silent? Well, that’s too bad but let it be so. The method helps you to keep your pride and dignity. But in such a case there’s a possibility to lose the women incapable of making their own decisions (attention: anyway after your pleading letters their decisions wouldn’t have been taken in your favor) and the type of women who are ready to act only after a good spanking.

That’s why if you feel that there is hope to improve the situation, in case if she likes you, she’s given you her phone number and has been paying much attention to your persona, but at the moment she has silenced for some reason – show her that YOU ARE NOT GOING TO TOLERATE such an attitude. But since you think that your relationship has a future you are READY to give her ONE LAST CHANCE. Even if on such a condition she tries to spoil everything – then say bye to the babe! It’s time to slam the door! J

Here’s the example of such a letter/phone talk: “Hi there (name)! I just wanted you to know that I’m really disappointed with your silence. But I know that our relationship has got a big potential and that’s why I’m ready to give you the last chance. So why don’t you call/write me back?”

Such an approach works when she speaks with you on the phone and replies to your letters but she seems to be always pressed for time to be with you. Here is the example of a straight statement that you could make if she never has time for you:

“Hello, (name), are you going to spend some time with me or are you busy as always? I will have some free time this Saturday night.”

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