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Author: "Stepleader"

When the girl is surrounded by the suite of admirers you have to disarm them!

Let’s get down to business: the situation requires drastic measures. All you need is to disarm her admirers. This is how you do this: come up to the group but DON’T pay any attention to the girl. Start a conversation with the guys and arouse their interest in the subject. This is a MALE community. Turn your back upon her and make her feel uneasy. All you do is you transfer their attention to yourself (you steal it from her). You are the one who is in the limelight now. All the guys are on her side, all of them EXCEPT FOR ONE. YOU.

Now from the position of advantage over her, the position you have just won, you take her by her hand and tell the others “what if I steal her from you, guys, for a couple of seconds?” They will agree, of course. And you lead her away to chat with her for a while. I really love to do it! It’s a piece of genius and it WORKS!

Author: “Svengali”

Gentlemen, you have to look for the contents, not just a package. If you are only looking for a package she will know about it and SHE WILL TAKE CONTROLE OF THE SITUATION – that’s all!

You must, I will repeat it, you MUST be ready to leave any time, no matter, how much you are attracted to this body or face.

Remember, this is you who are examining her on the subject of matching you and not the other way round. The only way to check her up is to find out more about her personality living inside of this body.

You think I’m talking about examining every beauty on the subject of matching you for a long-term relationship? NO!! The relationship will last as long as YOU wish. But the moment she notices (and it won’t take up much time) that you are testing her, right at this moment the table turns and this is you who are making HER try to look good in YOUR eyes.

And now compare this situation with the one when the guys are doing their best to try to look good in HER eyes.

To illustrate the arguments I gave here’s the following picture: you are in the bar and there she is, a stunning woman. She’s speaking with the guys. One of them has got a body of a Greek god and an attitude “yeah, I’m tough”; the other is a virtuoso of pick-upping stamps; the next has got his own ways and so on. So, this is just a group of guys racking their brains trying to make out what this woman wants and doing their best to give her exactly what she wants.

And here comes your obedient servant, Svengali, who notices the woman, enters the centre of the group and says: “Excuse me, guys, I just wanted to ask this lady where she has got these ear-rings from which make her eyes and her skin shine so delicately and then I’ll leave.” (I turn to her) “So, my lady, where have you got these ear-rings from? They make you look like a goddess.” (Svengali’s hand approaches the ear-ring and touches slightly the girl’s neck on its way). She replies something. “Thanks, guys, now I will go back.” (I let the girl notice with the move of my hand where exactly I will be staying).

So what was that: (1) I showed to everyone that I wasn’t afraid; (2) I disarmed my opponents; (3) I pleased her; (4) I showed to her that I’m not going to stick around and try to win her benevolence (of course, if I had such a chance I would have involved another woman into the conversation to make the first one think about the wonderful things I am saying to the second woman, the things she’s deprived of).

Who do you think the girl’s attention will be focused on? Who will she be thinking of: all those guys trying to pick-up her or the one who had said to her all he wanted to say, made her feel good and left to be occupied with somebody else? I deprived her of one of the positive resources. Despite of the fact that all other positive resources remained she, like every one of us, will keep concentrated on the one which has disappeared.

Show her that you are interested but at the same time that you are always ready to leave as soon as you see that she’s not what you want.

Now I’m going to play the Devil’s advocate role – suppose my little game “I leave” didn’t work. You think I’m “worried” about it? Not in the least. All because: he who runs after something he hopes to get will have to keep on running to have it. Thus, the guy who got that woman would have to keep on doing the same thing he used to do when he had been trying to get her. Well, me... I just used my charms and then left. I’m a mystery to her and it makes her want me.

What do you think is easier?

Svengali.

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